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About

My name is Shelby Gillies, and

ever since I was little, my twin brother and I would play local video games together. During the 2020 lockdown, I got into online multiplayer games and experienced gendered attacks for the first time in video games. Since then, these attacks have become something I have come to accept when I am playing multiplayer games. I am determined to change that.

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